If Only You Knew

January 28, 2019 38 Comments

If Only You Knew

 

Greetings dear readers. I hope you had an excellent Christmas and that you found some pretty things under the tree. Today I’d like to share some thoughts about underdressing. Most likely, you and I are in the same boat. I can’t really wear outerwear beyond the privacy of my own home. Perhaps some of you can pass and outerwear is an option. If so, good for you! Frankly, I am a very long way from passing and, living in a very conservative part of the country, I’d have to have a death wish to even try.

 

All that being said, we can still connect with the inner femme by underdressing. There are so many wonderful options – panties, bras, camisoles, garters with stockings. Ah, such fun. By the by, I didn’t include pantyhose. If you can wear them, more power to you. I tried it a couple of times, but by the end of the day, I felt like I had been cut in half and neutered. Not a nice feeling.

 


 

Do you underdress for work? I have found that underdressing under my power suit has greatly reduced the stress of my job. I like sitting in a meeting with all the other power suits and feeling the caress of my bra and thinking, “If only you knew.”  If you have to put on your binary male face at work, that makes it even more fun.

 

There is nothing more comfy than feeling the slinky smoothness of a camisole under a dress shirt. If you are more of a blue collar worker, a cami may not be the best idea, but you can certainly enjoy some nice satin panties. I had an internet friend who unintentionally outed himself at work. He works on a high voltage power crew. He was wearing a thong. His tee shirt was untucked and he was bending over working on something and his whale tale was exposed. Busted! A coworker pulled him aside and said “You’d better pull your pants up.” The coworker fortunately was cool with it and made no further comments.

 

 

So much for work. What about in your leisure time? What do you like to wear under it all when you go to the mall or grocery store? In moderate weather, I enjoy wearing a garter belt and hose under my jeans. I only wear women’s jeans, and if you haven’t tried them, you really must. They are far more comfy than those heavy, scratchy men’s jeans. The denim is thick enough that the garter tabs don’t show.

 

How about when you go to the doctor? I’ve chatted with some folks online who wear panties to their doctor’s visit and the doctor is fine with it. Is yours? Mine absolutely would not be fine with it. Funny story: a couple of years ago I was getting dressed and felt something sticking the sole of my right foot. I lifted my foot, only to discover I was standing on a wasp. That hurt like a bad dog. I’m allergic to wasps, so my wife packed me in to the car and off to my doctor’s office we went. I had on lacy pink panties and didn’t even give it a thought. We got there and the doc examined my foot. He told me to stand up and drop my drawers so he could give me a steroid injection in my hip. My wife and I looked at each other like a couple of deer in the headlights. Fortunately, the doc had his back to me as he prepared the syringe. I pulled my pants down while concealing my panties well beneath them. In retrospect it is really funny - especially the look of panic my wife and I gave each other.  Ah, the challenges of being a cross dresser!

 


 

Just for fun, I looked up the Latin translation of “If only you knew” and it is “Si modo iam nosceres”. What do you think – could we form a sorority with the motto “Si modo iam nosceres”? Heck we could even have tee shirts with our motto emblazoned on the front. It could be our secret handshake when we encounter each other at the mall.


So much for my ramblings. I’d love for you to share your thoughts and experiences in the wonderful world of underdressing. Get that keyboard warmed up – I’m waiting to hear from you!


Fond regards,

Angie


38 Responses

Stevie
Stevie

February 21, 2019

Nathan
More power to you! Its great to be free to wear want you want when yku want. This is a great forum for discussion and friendship

Nathan
Nathan

February 21, 2019

It is great to see everyone here coming together and sharing their experiences. I feel this is almost essential in providing us the feeling of normalcy, opposed to the rejection some of us may feel due to societies standards.

Since I last posted, I have started dressing publicly. Last Saturday I got some pants fitted at the tailor, went to the mall, and had lunch with my girlfriend while wearing pantyhose, 2" booties, and an asymmetric LBD. I also wore a long line hoodie over it, and some eyeliner and jewelry to put it all together.

I was nervous, but my girlfriend kept assuring me it would only be weird if I made it so. She was right, and I now apply that way of thinking every morning when I decide what to wear, and you should too. Since Monday, I have been dressing completely to work as well. The aforementioned long line hoodie has been worn each day, with pantyhose and either a midi skirt or dress underneath.

I have gone to several places after work wearing these outfits, and have yet to receive any negative comments. In fact, the only comments I have received thus far were positive (three so far). This is extremely validating and inspires me to share these experiences with you all, in hopes it may motivate anyone who is struggling with the confidence to dress publicly, like I was.

I too paint both my toe and fingernails, usually black though as my style is Gothic. I would also like to try some deep purples or reds. (Hint: I want some of these shades for bras/panties on this website!) I also love hosiery, so I wear pantyhose almost everyday. I will transition to stockings once the weather gets warmer though, as pantyhose can make the private areas a bit warm after 8 hours of working.

My shoe choice today is a bit more feminine than the previous times I’ve dressed publicly, as I am wearing 5" knee high boots. Moving up to these after wearing the booties for a few days made it far less intimidating. Speaking of which, once I wore all of these outfits both in public and at work, I no longer feel intimidation.

As per my original statement, sharing these experiences can help us gain the much needed confidence we all strive for to be ourselves. If you haven’t already, create an account on Quora. It’s a social media site in which you can follow several topics and ask questions/share experiences on them.

Have a great day everyone, and remember: If it’s both scary and awesome, you should definitely pursue it.

Stevie
Stevie

February 19, 2019

Hi Angie
Yes love me some toenail polish, that’s one of the reasons I started xdressing but that’s another conversation. I agree the garter belt thigh highs are prettier but I cant pull that off at work, I can wear the stay ups without any problem.
I love this blog
Wear something femme today!
Stevie

Angie
Angie

February 19, 2019

Ah Stevie, so you like toenail polish too? My fav is frost pink. When I go to my esthetician, she always compliments me on my toenail polish. As far as the thigh high hose, a word to the wise. I like thigh high stay ups. One day I wore them to work and just kept them on the rest of the evening. Bad idea. The silicone bands around the thighs that keep them up left me with a hicky all the way around me thighs! That’s when I went to garter belts and hose. Looks prettier anyway.
Angie

Stevie
Stevie

February 18, 2019

Allie
I feel you on that.
I’ve developed my own hybrid style that includes panty and matching bra
Occasionally stockings I prefer thigh highs, I add a morning face treatment and some make up.
And keep my toes polished and I’m good.

Ally
Ally

February 17, 2019

I’ve been underdressing for a while now and find it tremendously empowering in expressing my feminine side. I’ll often wear Xdress matching bra and panty sets under a suit and shirt together with opaque hold-ups. If I’m feeling a little more adventurous and know I’ll be on safe territory I’ll also put on a pair of mid-height ankle boots with a neither broad nor stilletto heel and insert some Xdress pads into my bra. A touch of make-up finishes it off. Taking these small steps one by one has helped me find my own style and grow in confidence. It’s amazing how many people don’t bat an eyelid.

Angie
Angie

February 13, 2019

Kathia, welcome to our little sorority and XD and BA. As far as wearing a bra to work, XD sells many bras that won’t give projection (meaning giving you a bust line) and can safely be worn under a shirt. Of course, it depends on what kind of work you do and what kind of shirts you wear at work. My work involved dress clothes, and bras worked just fine under heavier weave shirts. If your work involves wearing only a tee shirt, that could be a problem. Good luck, and again, welcome!

Angie

Kathia
Kathia

February 11, 2019

Hi Angie. I just found this place. I have always wear pantyhose, men’s and women’s. For the first time I found a place that make lingerie for us. So my first instinct was to buy some bras. I haven’t got the courage to wear them, to underdressing them at my office, someday I’ll try. I have found that is very difficult that people would find out. I wear garter belts and stockings and even if the garter tabs shows, people does not notice, and of course that makes it more fun. All the time I’m thinking “If only you knew”.

Stevie
Stevie

February 06, 2019

Fred
I agree with you; if these clothes are men’s lingerie then whats the big deal? Its not even crossdressing! I started with women’s panties and I still wear then BUT xdress and Bodyaware are Men’s Lingerie so I can wear as normal underwear even the bras

Angie I’m anxiously awaiting the next blog topic

Stevie

Fred
Fred

February 05, 2019

I believe that if it is made for a man, and a man is wearing it, there should be no guilt. Although I started out wearing women’s underwear, the fit just wasn’t right. Being caught by anyone in women’s underwear would be embarrassing to me, but I feel differently when I know it is men’s underwear. I love the fabric, but I also love the support, and in my opinion a thong provides support just like a jock strap, only a thong disappears and a jockstrap I feel all day.

I also love pantyhose; however, other brands have made these for men and they feel fantastic. I also love the look of garters, but have not built up the courage to wear them out.

Maybe someone could write a blog for others who are new to the girly thing? Anyway, I am so glad I found BA and XD…they make my day…everyday!

K
K

February 04, 2019

I love the term “underdressing”, I honestly can’t think of a better way to describe what it is that I do and XDress has made doing it so rewarding. Woman’s panties are of course fantastic and they worked well enough but they aren’t made specifically for us. This company and their products have made being me everything it should be!
I work in the oil and gas industry, out in the field, and I wear panties and pantyhose or tights (depending on the time of year) every day under my fireproof overalls and I love it. I feel like I have some kind of advantage over everyone I work with, like they have no clue what their missing. Just like I think you may be missing out on pantyhose, it rang my undressing bell at a young age and is the whole reason I do it. There are so many colors, styles, thickness’, finishes, feels and looks, you just need to know where to look and to not stop looking until you find the right ones. My wife’s leg-wear drawer barely rivals mine and more then half of the pairs she has are only because I’ve recommended them to her, I’d say she’s pretty lucky to have a guy like me ; ). And for me there’s nothing more fun then wearing pantyhose with torn jeans, its like undressing with just a hint of outer dressing.
Take care, have fun and thank you so much for the opportunity you’ve given us all.
K

Stevie
Stevie

February 03, 2019

Thanks Angie glad to have a “sister” in Dress!
For those who want to dress but can’t this is a great way anddont forget the nail polish on your toes (looks much better if professionally done)
Stevie

Stevie
Stevie

February 02, 2019

Nathan
Thank you for responding
I have thought about chunky heeled booties and long tall sally has 14-16 sized shoes
It would still be a little hard in my town but if going 20-30 miles away i could pull it off
Femme jeans no one notices
Femme sweaters no on notices
Pair a bra panty match add a little foundation is my preferred weekend garb
I m working on the booties
Thanks again Nathan
Stevie

Angie
Angie

February 02, 2019

Stevie, you and I are very close together, in terms of outer wear. It is pretty cool here, so daily I wear tights under my women’s skinny jeans, matching panties and bra most days (those wonderful matching satin sets by Xdress), light foundation makeup, and frost pink polish on my toes. There are a lot of choices in androgynous sweaters. Have fun, dear friend!

Angie

Nathan
Nathan

February 02, 2019

Stevie, I would say if you have confidence to wear both makeup and fem outerwear in public, go all in with the heels. Perhaps they don’t have to be 4-6" sparkly heels or something, but even 2-3"chunky heeled booties will grant the same effect essentially. The plus side to booties is they look pretty androgynous in most styles, so you wouldn’t feel too out of place wearing them.

When I first started cross-dressing daily, I went all in with the feminine stuff so it was all lace, mesh, frills, etc. As far as shoes go, they were all very feminine and had heels of 4" or higher. I didn’t really consider the fact that I would need more unisexual items first for public outings, so that is next on my list.

We can still satisfy our need to wear fem clothing by wearing things that don’t make us stand out too much (unisexual/androgynous options), and I think that is the key to feeling confident and anxiety-free in public.

The first couple times I went out in public dressed up, it was all very feminine and resulted in me not having the confidence to get out of the car. If wearing unisexual clothes/shoes first can build enough confidence to wear feminine clothing eventually without worry, I say that is the way to go.

Stevie
Stevie

February 01, 2019

I was just thinking about part of this blog edition and Angie you asked what we wear under our leisure clothes?

Well, while I do take chances at work if I’m wearing enough clothing, I feel the weekend is mine.
So out come the panties and bra matching set and in cold weather footless stocking tights or thigh highs
I keep nail polish on my toes so some light foundation and a little mascara with my straight leg or skinny jeans, a femme sweater and I’m in femme business. No one cares to say a thing, because I still look male.

For some of us there is no desire to transform just the desire to feel femme sexy and good.
The only thing I haven’t tried because of where I live is heels out and about.

James
James

February 01, 2019

“Si modo iam nosceres” – I can dig it!

Also Angie, “Thank goodness for sites like Xdress where we can discover we aren’t just some isolated weirdo” – aaaaaaaaabsolutely yes.

I work in construction management, I’m a pretty big guy. Fit, just 6-1/2’ tall. I absolutely love the juxtaposition of under dressing some nice satin and lace stuff under the flannel and jeans. No one would suspect a thing. On super cold days I happily bust out some comfy leggings too.

Keep up the good work! Love these products and I own a bunch, dig the blog posts too this is just the first one I’ve replied to.

Angie
Angie

February 01, 2019

Stevie, you stated, “these are our clothes, our lingerie ,and we have a right to wear them” meaning the wonderful lingerie of Xdress. I love the way you put that. Yes, these are OUR clothes, made especially for the male physique. What others may think doesn’t really matter, because no one’s going to see them. I think that’s half the rush when dressed properly in a male power suit. I like looking all alpha on the outside, while I’m all Angie underneath it all. Matt S, you put it well, as far as the calming effect your danties can have even when in a stressful environment. Welcome to our little club, Matt S.

Angie

Stevie
Stevie

January 31, 2019

Matt S,

I think there is something special about the powerful Alpha male dressed in lacy undergarments. Its erotic, hot, tingling, yes.
I have a similar situation and on many occasions I’ve gotten a lot of stress relief remembering what I have on
I will never pass I have a beard but I love my femme clothes underneath and outerwear (jeans, sweaters, etc)
Xdress provides men’s lingerie which gives me even more confidence wearing “men’s clothes” because these are our clothes, our lingerie ,and we have a right to wear them
Stevie

Matt
Matt

January 31, 2019

Underdressing. I am in love with that term.
I am a 45 year old male, but am so far at the back of the closet about my under garment love it would take days to find me. My wife of 20 years has no clue. I tried once, years ago. It really didn’t work. Either she didn’t understand exactly or refused to let it go any further.
Unfortunately, I’ve been secretly dressing in private for years. Mainly while I was traveling for work. I had a pair here, pair there hidden.
A few years ago, for a promotion, I had to spend 2 months out of state for training, so I live in a corporate apartment. I took the opportunity to explore my Under Dressing full time under everything. I was able to finally try on bras from here that I had always been curious about. I was hooked.
I grew my collection and my tastes.
I was confident and happy everyday, wearing what ever I wanted to under my work clothes.
Then, it came time to go home.
I packed everything up. Hid it away in a safe place, and went back to my old boring men’s briefs.(well, as close to exciting as I could get without setting her off).
After realizing that I needed to release some stress and figure out what makes me happy, I found a way to Under Dress again almost daily!
I joined a Gym near a Storage place, so before I go work out every morning, I swing by my storage and get my undergarments for the day. Go work out, freshen up, put on my dainty things, and go to work running an entire Billion Dollar a year company. No one knows, and I’m almost always in a good mood. I can be in a board meeting and start to get frustrated, then, I act like I’m reaching for my pen or phone in my suit jacket, only to brush the delicate lace on my bra, or feel the satin slip across my nip, and my mood instantly changes. The same if I’m wearing an incredibly sexy thong or frilly panty. A slight movement, and I’m reminded that I am in total control, yet pampered at the same time.
It’s a rush. And I love it.
Oh, and don’t get me started about the wonderful nighties and matching panty sets from XDress while I’ve traveling. I sleep so great when in a strange hotel bed but comforted in my coral Jersey Henley Nightie with Matching Panty.
Or my Cherry Blossom set, and on and on…I get a kick out of seeing that TSA inspection card when I unpack my checked luggage and wonder what went thru their minds when they searched my bag.

Angie
Angie

January 31, 2019

Dear all,

I love all these comments! As you can see, we are far from alone. I often wonder while walking through the mall how many men are wearing panties and/or bra. Thank goodness for sites like Xdress where we can discover we aren’t just some isolated weirdo. A note to Larry – you asked about bra sizing. Just Google “bra sizing” and you’ll get all the instruction you need. You’ll likely find that with a B cup and a man’s band size (that’s the measurement under your breasts) that it’s hard to find women’s bras that fit. You might want to start with the bras from Xdress. I’m particularly partial to the satin bras.

Glad you all liked my idea of the Latin phrase. Don’t things always sound more dignified in Latin? Thank you all for the great responses. Keep that keyboard warmed up – I want to hear more!

Fond regards,
Angie

Dave
Dave

January 30, 2019

I think Nathan has hit the nail on the head. He is clearly from the younger generation who are very fortunate that they live in a non-judgmental world of their peers. In fact, from what I see in the media, anyone who steps outside of what 10 years ago was considered the norm, in terms of sexuality, clothing or lifestyle, is now the new cool and is protected and encouraged in their self expression by their friends.

For us well into our thirties and above, we are actually rather jealous in that we had to indulge our proclivities in private and “coming out” in any sense was a BIG deal. But I see the future as very exciting and hopefully this acceptance will spread beyond the millennials to all of us older guys!
In the not too distant future, I look forward to Xdress men’s lingerie being available in stores alongside the Jockey boxers!

Nathan
Nathan

January 30, 2019

As most of you know, I am fairly new to cross-dressing daily. As such, my wardrobe doesn’t consist of too many options currently, but 80% of the clothes on this site are on my wish list. However, I have a decent collection of panties, the satin & lace bra in black from here at xDress, and some Wolford pantyhose. I have worn all of these almost daily since I started cross-dressing. I also have a lace & mesh body I have worn a few times, but it gets pretty uncomfortable after 2 hours or so.

This includes at work, when I get groceries, visit family, or at the mall when I go shopping with my girlfriend. I have a pretty slim figure, so bras are easy to conceal since most of my males clothes are pretty loose. I have never had that fear some of you have about people finding out I am wearing lingerie. It seems I am much younger than most of you, and have grown up in a more accepting society. This is most likely why I do not have that fear.

With the proper makeup and some body forms, I could probably pass to wear outerwear publically. But that is a challenge I have yet to overcome. It will happen though. And that is because of the continual support I receive online through blogs like this, as well as my ever-loving girlfriend. Thank you for helping us all indulge in who we truly are.

P.S. That motto embroidered on any sort of lingerie would be very exciting.

Hans
Hans

January 30, 2019

Layering nylon panties is my dream

Keri
Keri

January 30, 2019

Hi Angie,

Another great post. Like others that have responded I was an executive that always under dressed. I sat at many meetings and more than a few times thought “if they only knew”. I am retired now so the meetings are in the past but I still think this way when out socially etc. I’ve worn panties exclusively for a very long time. I did on rare occasions wear a bra, stockings and garter belt.. Extremely distracting when wearing bras and stockings of course. Typically when I was out of town my fem wear increased as I felt the risk was less somehow. Plus my wife was unaware that I enjoyed these items beyond her approval of panties. My under dressing also includes women’s body care products. Lotions, creams and perfume. Over the years I have completely adopted the female line of beauty products. Rarely have I ever had anyone ask what I was wearing for cologne. Once (a woman) actually said my perfume by name and she was right. I just say that I can’t recall what I put on, I think Polo. I don’t know if this is true with others but I have found the older I get the more fem I feel and want to be.

I love your Latin logo idea. Definitely worth pursuing. I like the logo you see on line “I Wear Panties” but most are hardly likely to wear that on a jersey. I like it being discreet and suggestive. Even a bracelet engraved and certainly on lingerie. Perhaps something even more provocative.

Slightly off subject but relevant. Women have popularized bralettes in the last few years. I love them. They are so feminine, lacey and easy to conceal. I’ve noticed that some of the mens bras in XDress are more like bralettes which is great. They are fairly easy to conceal. Just be careful what shirt of jersey you choose as like bras the outline can be seen. Many years ago on an out of town trip I was outed wearing a bra. A bra not bralette. A guy outright asked me if I was wearing a bra. I was and I froze and no doubt blushed which revealed the truth. I denied it but I suspect he never believed me.

Steve mentioned wearing panties to doctor visits. It felt like it took me years but I wear panties to all doctor visits. Started with a basic cotton panty and I now wear just about any nylon panty in my dresser. You do get comfortable and pretty much have no anxiety wearing them after you have broken the ice a few times. My feeling is if we are going to wear panties we need to commit all the way. Certainly XDress has helped pave the way.

Hugs and Kisses, Keri

ROB
ROB

January 30, 2019

I love the term under dressing and do it myself too. Mainly panties and sometimes camisole, depending on what shirt I am wearing. I don’t wear a suit jacket or tie, so although I have tried a matching bra, it shows through the shirt, so that has to wait until I am alone at home. Like Jeff, my wife doesn’t know I like wearing these, so have to be careful. Would never wear pantyhose, but holdups and garters are a different matter, although I haven’t ventured to do this for work. I love the satin feel of the material. When I have some more money or things are on a good discount, I would love to buy some more.

Thank you Xdress. I am happy to be male – it’s just I love to wear feminine styled under garments. Men’s are so boring.

Pauley
Pauley

January 29, 2019

I have been underdressing for decades. I cannot imagine wearing ugly uncomfortable men’s underwear again. I wear only panties now with an occasional bra and garters. I work in a high stress environment and have found fem under dressing to help manage my stress and send my thoughts elsewhere. I too am one lucky man to have found a wife who accepts my lingerie wearing and participated and loves it as much as i do. Nothing is sexier to me than us wearing the same lingerie together. And yes … those who play together strays together. So let me slip into a clean pair of pink panties and matching bra and start my night right. Thanks XD .. you do make dreams come true.

Yaniv
Yaniv

January 29, 2019

Dear Angie

Thanks for sharing this post. I find this blog a warm place for me to read and also to share my thoughts and feelings, that I don’t usually share (only my wife knows about my crossdressing)

I started underdressing just lately… most the days I’m at the office alone so I can feel safe underdressing but most of the time it makes me so horny so it’s hard to work.
Few years ago, when I first brought my lingerie during a vacation abroad, I also was underdressing and always had the feeling that everyone was looking at me and they all know what I’m hiding… back at home, I’m still feel shy to buy for my self, but someday it’ll pass.

I can’t think about underdressing when I go with my kids to the playground or to holiday dinner at my parents, but last weekend, my wife and I took a short vacation without the kids and I was underdressing all the weekend and I felt so sexy.. I was so “brave” to go shopping and change clothes at the mall… I’ll be honest and tell you that I held my breath and wished that none will open the curtain… but it was also very very naughty and sexy.

In the evening I wore for the first time my xdress bra and panties (that I got few days earlier) and I felt so sexy and feminine. It was kind of a surprise for my wife and she loved it very very much so I’m the happiest man on earth.
I also planned to try high heels and get my first pair but I could resist my fetish for vinyls (the music not the material) so I’ll make it next time.

I hope, someday, to meet an underdresser / crossdresser just in the middle of the street.. it could be the beginning of new friendship… it could be fun if there is someone from Israel here…

Larry
Larry

January 29, 2019

I have been taking supplements and using creams to enlarge my breasts and am now a small " b"and will wear a bra once in a while out in public and it feels so gooood!!! I want to buy a bra and pantie set but not sure how to measure a set on line.. Maybe you can help me.. I love this site!! Larry

Stevie
Stevie

January 29, 2019

Hi Angie, glad to hear from you again.
Glad others have chimed in.

I have completely transformed to underdressing. I have a full array of panties all styles. From xdress I have matching bra panty sets which is my fave
I love the phrase as our rallying cry!
I often sit in my office and in meetings saying If they only knew

Great site, great blog; thank you for the outlet

Dave/Souixe
Dave/Souixe

January 29, 2019

Hah ha I love the idea of the t-shirt/key ring/broach/Tattoo!!! Maybe a nice pair of knicks embroidered?
I always thought that if I underdressed all the time the novelty would wear off. I can honestly say that I have been crossing over for 20+ years and the shear joy of wearing nice underwear etc has only intensified. There is so much choice and lovely lacey/frilly/ exciting underwear out there. It really makes me feel so good everyday, it is like the best feeling ever, while keeping your clothes on!!!!!

Andy
Andy

January 29, 2019

Never heard it called ‘underdressing’ before, but yes I do it 90% when not at work (almost to the point it feels normal and I forget, lol), at the moment I’ve just started a new job so waiting to see if it’s practical but in my old job I used to do it a lot although not 100% of the time, I was in the RAF and loved the secret knowledge (did guard duty wearing suspenders and stockings more than once-blush). I love when chatting to females and think to myself ‘I bet I have on nicer panties than you’, lol.
I do wear skirts occasionally (they feel great and I don’t understand why males just don’t go for it) around the house and when going on long drives.

Eric
Eric

January 29, 2019

Hi Angie. I underdress every single day! I love it all lace and satin bras satin camisoles garter belts thongs panties oh my god sooo much fun. My wife enjoys it just as much!! I am totally in on the Latin phrase!!

Grady
Grady

January 29, 2019

Angie -

Lovely post! So much here to speak to! My under-dressing is daily. I have a significant collection of panties, thongs, boy shorts, thigh highs, garters, and hose. And you hit it right on the nose. Being an alpha, binary male, I’m the boss at work. While sitting and running meetings, I often have the same feeling of Si modo iam nosceres""! Especially "when I’m standing at the conference table wipe board, and can feel my thigh highs, lacy thong and straps pulling against one another, as I feverishly demonstrate and write.

I appreciate this medium, and will follow others on their under-dressing exploits! I find this conversation both a relief, and a turn on, to know there are other men out there like me!

Kyrsten
Kyrsten

January 29, 2019

Angie
Good to hear from you again. Like Tyri, I can’t pass either but love underdressing especially with lace panties and thongs. I haven’t been brave enough yet to try a bralette, but maybe someday soon I will. And I’m all in on the Latin phrase!

Kyrsten

Jeff
Jeff

January 29, 2019

OMG I love underdressing, however, as much as I love it I don’t get to do it very often except for wearing panties. I get to do that about 4-5 days a week. The problem is that my significant other doesn’t know that I love wearing cute sexy clothes so I have to be careful. I just don’t understand what the big deal is. Anyone that has ever worn panties knows how amazing the look and how good they make you feel. Then you throw in a bra or a garter belt and thigh highs, or a body suit, oh my, it’s so amazing. Keep up the good work Xdress giving all of us options for sexy great looking panties, lingerie and clothes.

Tyri
Tyri

January 29, 2019

Dear Angie,

I so agree with you about pantyhose — an abomination! It is very bad to encounter it in others during seduction, it is even worse to try to wear it yourself.

It could be worse, though. During my student days, a buddy and I went to an exclusive ball where we got acquainted with a couple of sisters. His sister was the older one, so those two were the first to eclipse themselves discreetly. Ten minutes later, they were back, Jean-Loup, my friend, took the first chance he had to whisper furiously to me, “She’s wearing a f…. girdle!” I burst out laughing, and after a while he could see the funny side of it too. Talk about body armor!

Anyway, I am all for a motto in Latin. I’m counting on you to get Xdress to add it to their offerings, discreetly embroidered on any item of clothing for a modest fee.

Hugs and kisses,

Tyri, who can’t pass either but who underdresses daily and loves the feeling.

Steve
Steve

January 29, 2019

Under dressing is a 100% lifestyle.
I love a matching bra and panty set under clothing and unless the shirt is too tight, then the straps don’t show. .
Stockings , garters, bodysuits and cami’s are all in my wardrobe.
So far as pantyhose go, you must be buying poor quality or the wrong size. I love pantyhose and wear them regally. Not right now. It’s way to hot in Australia and as society sucks, I don’t feel overly safe wearing pantyhose with shorts.
I have also been outed and got caught out at the docs wearing a lace cami and matching panties and my sheer ankles and legs have been seen on more than one occasion under my pants.
I love the idea of the T-Shirts. Great motto.

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