Valentine’s Day is almost upon us, which means about half of us will be scrambling to figure out what to do for our significant others, and the rest of us will be figuring out what to do with ourselves. Of course, because of the natural order of things (or at least that’s what I’m lead to believe), us single folk won’t be “figuring out what to do with ourselves” as much as we may be lamenting in the fact that we don’t have a significant other to spend the day with. If this is going to be you on Valentine’s Day, first of all, there’s no need! You’re already great just the way you are, whether you’re in a relationship or not. However, if you need a distraction from that fact, or are just looking for a way to spend the day, here are some great ways to treat yourself to a Valentine’s Day full of self-love!
1. Treat yourself to your favorite dessert/food
Chocolate releases endorphins, after all! Even if you’re counting calories, make this the day that you forget about the diet! You deserve a little break from all that "healthy eating" mumbo jumbo. Having just that small little treat is the perfect way to allow yourself to feel relaxed, loved, and like all is right in the world. I mean, that’s just the reality of desserts.
2. Do something you enjoy
Whatever it may be! Even if it’s something as simple as binge-watching your favorite show, allow yourself to take some time for something that YOU enjoy. The best thing about taking yourself on a date like this is that you’re the only one you have to consult on what to do, so the possibilities are endless. No trying to figure out what to do/where to go, there! Unless you're an incredibly indecisive person, then, well...that's on you.
3. Wear something that makes you feel amazing
Pull out your sexiest undergarments! Put on your frilliest skirt! Wear that dress you saved just for special occasions! Loving yourself is the most special occasion, so you deserve to feel good on a day centered around love. Do you have a sexy pair of panties that you’ve been saving for a potential lover? Well, you’re that lover, today! Don’t have one yet? You’re free to browse our Valentine’s Day collection on our website to pick out a little treat for yourself on this special day (we're also doing a sale on anything in that collection right now if you use the code LOVE10!) If we know anything about a holiday about love, it’s that you should feel sexy on said day, even if it means you're the only one who will see yourself in a sexy lace panty.
Whether you’re single or have a significant other, how do you plan on spending your Valentine’s Day? Let us know in the comments! Personally, I’ll be stuffing my face with chocolate and playing horror games. I guess that’s my idea of romance, or something.
We should indulge ourselves more often than once a year! Sure, Valentine’s Day is a special day and you should do something special for your SO and for yourself but why not enjoy the same special treat on any given Tuesday? Lounge in your XDress panties and bra. Go for a massage. Eat something delicious that may have a few more calories than you want! Life is too short to not enjoy!
As a Bi-sexual middle age male I completely understand the desire to “Dress” occasionally. For me that means something colorful and satiny in a Thong or G-string along with a pair of high quality gartered stockings. I will wear this under my man cloths for the day and then indulge in the evening at home by taking off my street cloths and slipping a pretty satin road on over my lingerie. I only do this once or twice a month. I do not dress completely as I am too masculine and I am completely comfortable in my sexuality to enjoy this without guilt.