Good day, dear readers, and thank you for your following of my blogs. You are the best! I got to thinking about the whole issue of fetish, and decided to look it up. It is defined as, “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.” Beyond that, there are fetishes that are ascribed magical powers.
Frankly, that is a beyond me. Getting back to the original definition (I’m not going into the voodoo definition) did you start crossdressing because of sexual arousal? Did you find wearing panties a bit thrilling? Do you still find it so, or has wearing panties become just the usual thing for you? How about bras? I find both panties and bras so thrilling to wear. Honestly, matching bras and panties from Xdress, along with their matching camisoles are just about the best in the world!
Anyway, getting back to the topic, do you find dressing in beautiful lingerie an arousing experience, or is it just a normal part of your day? Xdress has a number of things that may appeal to a fetish dresser, such as dresses, petticoats & tutus (I love the Full Tulle Petticoat by the way), and skirts (check out the ballet skirt – way too cute!) The dresses especially suggest some form of role playing, and are definitely suited to fetish fun. Of course, there are some folks that go beyond this level to a frontier way beyond – the adult baby fetish. These are the folks that enjoy dressing as a baby, complete with diaper, bonnet, and teething ring or baby rattle, and wet their diapers. What do you think about that?
Getting back to the title of this blog, “Where do you draw the line?”, are you into fetish, or is dressing in lovely lingerie just a normal part of your life? What type of fetish goes from a “Hell, Yass!” to a “Hell, No!” for you? I’d love to hear your comments.
Fondest regards,
Angie (Guest Blogger)
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Lots of questions that you asked. :-D
" … did you start crossdressing because of sexual arousal?" Yes.
“Did you find wearing panties a bit thrilling?” Yes!
“Do you still find it so, or has wearing panties become just the usual thing for you?” Yes, I do. It has become usual, but I do find it thrilling.
“How about bras?” I love wearing bras, too.
“Anyway, getting back to the topic, do you find dressing in beautiful lingerie an arousing experience, or is it just a normal part of your day?” I wish it were a normal part of my day, and even when it has been more normal, it’s still very exciting.
“… folks that enjoy dressing as a baby, complete with diaper, bonnet, and teething ring or baby rattle, and wet their diapers. What do you think about that?” If I’m completely honest, I let a girl online talk me into wearing a diaper many years ago, and sometimes I really do love it. I’m not a complete AB (more of a DL), but I have had some cute diaper covers, and still have one, and even a few pacifiers and bottles. :-D
“Where do you draw the line?” I’m not quite sure yet, but I think I’m close to it. I’ve surprised myself though and let cute girls talk me into things I wouldn’t have thought I would have done (like go to Victoria’s Secret to try things on .. and show it to the sales girl. Or even come out of my dressing room into common areas, in just my lingerie.) :-o
" … are you into fetish, or is dressing in lovely lingerie just a normal part of your life?" Both, sort of. That is, I wish it were everyday.
“What type of fetish goes from a ‘Hell, Yass!’ to a ‘Hell, No!’ for you?” I know I won’t go as far as a feces or golden showers, or lots of other things, but I do enjoy a few fetishes. ;-)
Your lucky to have met the partner uou did Penny. How lovely to be able to wake up every morning and put on pretty panties and a lovely dress. Presumably you can share time helping each other with your nails too. How lucky you are!
I have cross dressed intermittently since I was a teenager. My elder brother and his wife lived with us for a while after they got married and I guess the sight of seeing her lingerie in the laundry was a powerful influence. This was back in the late 50s/early 60s and I would secretly handle and sometimes try on her lingerie whenever the opportunity arose. Suffice to say I became hooked on the sensuous look and feel of lingerie. Over the years I have experienced different forms of cross dressing with different partners and without fail lingerie has significantly enhanced the sexual experience. Whilst I prefer panties, girdles and stockings only, I am a willing partner in any form of cross dressing providing it is consensual and enjoyable for all concerned. There is something inexplicably arousing when both partners are wearing “womens’” lingerie.
It started out as an arousing and thrilling experience for me.
However it quickly transitioned into something normal. I discovered my feminine side, and since then, clothes that are usually considered for “women” is what feels most normal for me to wear. Most comfortable for me to wear.
It’s who I am on the inside
I’m not sure about fetish but for me it is both feminine and gay. I wear lingerie when I am most anticipating an encounter with a gay guy and to feel more feminine.