You should always give yourself permission to be fabulous! Being fabulous is different everybody. I do think the clothes we wear help with our self esteem and confidence which leads to our fabulous selves so wear what you want, when you want and how you want!
That is the most fun in the world to build an xdress wardrobe. Starting with panties then baby dolls and learning how to apply makeup such as eyebrow makeup.facial and body creams ,etc.
I fear like most men my love of wearing lingerie is a secret to all but my closest partner(s). However I find myself torn between 2 schools of thought on the subject. On the one hand there is something incredibly exciting about wearing sexy lingerie in public without anybody knowing what is actually lurking beneath your conventional outer wear. On the other it is somewhat hypocritical not to be open about such lingerie wearing just because people might object. We shouldn’t care what others think but we are human and that’s exactly what humans do. I may need help but not when it comes to knowing what lingerie to wear.
Hi Hannah – I enjoy matching bra and panties or a cami if its colder. I prefer hold ups to garters as the bumps of the fasteners show through my trousers otherwise. Small inserts in my bra are also good and a bit of make up and not too high heels if I’m going somewhere friendly. Xdress has the perfect range that fits me too.
I know what you mean Ally! What is your favorite lingerie to wear under your male clothes? I love a cute matching bra, panty, garter belt and stockings…but usually do a cami and matching panties.
Hi Hannah – you’re right, it is so much fun! I love co-ordinating different bits to arrive at a complete look from top to toe. It’’s just fabulous to have pretty matching undies and an outer look that feminises my otherwise drab male contours. It’s almost art.
Hi Ally! I agree, I love the sheer variety of lingerie. I love having the choice of panties with lace, panties with bows, panties with ribbon….it’s so fun!
It’s entirely up to us all what we wear. I prefer the prettiness of colours, materials and shapes that are available in what is traditionally regarded as feminine wear. As you experiment more you find your own style. Hang it all what that might be. I enjoy the feeling of looking and feeling feminine.
I am indeed married to a wonderful woman and for her privacy I don’t discuss her up much. She is supportive and amazing, though!
Who’s to say what is and what is not a masculine interest? If we want beautiful lingerie to be for everyone regardless of gender, then everything else should be for everyone as well, whether it’s a sport or meeting a friend at a pub. My interests are reading and art, to be honest. My wife and I do not share a wardrobe. She is a tiny and petite whereas I am really too tall to share clothes. Jewelry, yes, dresses, no.
Hi Andy! Good for you! No one is going to give you permission to wear your yellow silk tea dress…but no one can stop you. :)
I let myself feel guilty and ashamed of my love of feminine clothes for forty years. No more. As of last fall, I have been going out in pretty outfits that are appropriate to the seaso. I don’t need anyone’s permission or approval. If you don’t think I look nice in a yellow silk tea dress over a lace camisole while I am out shopping, then tough nuts to you. Say it loud, I’m skirted and I’m proud!
This is exciting but puzzling. You say you are straight, with no mention of what you present to a wife or feminine partner. You are non-transexual in any further desire, but no mention of masculine interests – sports, mates in pubs,and so on. Do you share the pleasure of your large wardrobe with a partner? Tell us more