Cooking a delectable dinner of barbecued lamb chops, asparagus, peppers and a salad with a wonderfully paired red wine, followed by him playing guitar while singing Steve Earle and Tom Petty, was the precursor to the first Catwalk my SO ever did for me.
Though our relationship was new, we had discussed him modeling some of his lingerie for me. He was clearly nervous as he peeked around the corner for the first time. I was pleasantly surprised by the look of the blue lace bra and panties (he is quite particular about matching). I wasn’t sure how it would fit and I wondered… “Will it take away from his sexy chest, or add to it?”. I discovered quite quickly I love his chest either way, but with matching panties and bra the sensuality definitely rises!
Due to some sensory cravings I experience, I often prefer his hairy chest on my skin (I love, love, love hairy chests!) while other times, I love the feel of satin. Mine SO has a little black nighty he wears with black satin panties – his nighties on the catwalk are so fem. The look and feel of him are so sensual and this soft feminine side of him makes me feel closer to him than I could know only the masculine side. I see and feel his heart open more in these feminine moments and cherish each one.
I do have more than a few favorites that he likes to tease me with. One, in particular, is a black lace bra, garter, and stockings with red lace panties. I love when he wears that outfit – in the kitchen drinking coffee, making me breakfast, cuddling me on the couch, during the catwalk… whatever it is we are doing, this outfit usually ends up leading us to a heated moment (hour, evening,…). This sometimes requires removal of a said outfit, other times, the preference is to enjoy wearing the satiny, lacy bits to the very end.
In the end, there is something to be said about a man who is open and comfortable in his own skin and loves himself enough to be just who he truly is. Sharing that with a partner (especially one who is on board) can put your relationship into a whole new realm – I feel as though we are able to enjoy each other on such a deep level because of it. Each time he does a catwalk for me is such a new experience. I like to celebrate each new piece he shows me with a little nibble… ear, chest or other guilty pleasures - imaginations required here.
One thing that I really enjoy about my SO is his willingness to try new and different things. We’re both adventurous and enjoy surprises. The fact that this is socially taboo feeds into that adventurous nature. I do hope to inspire another GG’s out there to embrace their men, bras and all because all any of us wants and needs is to be loved and allowed to be true to who we are. And, the bonuses everyone receives is well worth letting go of social norms and being free!
Lots of Satiny Hugs!
Excellent conversation here… It seems there are a considerable amount of women out there who support the feminine side of their man, and it’s amazing to see. Like most of you here, I too have a wonderful woman who supports and encourages this side of me.
I cannot express how amazing it is to be my raw self each and every day, and still be loved and respected by a beautiful woman. We are at the dawn of a new era, one free of toxic stereotypes and judgements. And that is such a fantastic thing. Keep on being yourselves!
I applaud each and every one of you for being true to who you are. I love knowing there are other SO’s out there who truly accept the feminine side of their man.
In my mind, there is nothing more sexy than a confident man who enjoys being supported by his SO in a way that is so intimate.
For me, part of the excitement is about feeling adventurous, naughty and sexy. A big thing to always keep in mind … if your SO loves you enough to encourage you in the area, encourage
and support them in being sexy as well. Make it about both of you, not just one of you.
Some people have a giving selfless nature – be sure to reciprocate.
Lots of satiny hugs!
XDress is and has done a wonderful job opening the door for those of us that have and love our feminine side. I am one of a fortunate few that have a spouse that accepts and understands that we can still be a man and also accept and enjoy our feminine side. She hasn’t always been this way but over the years has felt more comfortable. It has helped a lot that society is more open and the discussions are more frequent and varied. Thanks to XDress for facilitating this issue.
I really feel there are so many men like us; they like wearing lingerie but are not interested in transitioning. They ate perfectly happy with their biological sex. But society has told us its feminine and we think we therefore must be female.
For those who want to transition i love you and love your courage.
For guys like me fluidity and non binary fits us better.
Glad your SO is on board its so much easier that way. No secrets no purging. The freedom to be yourself is TRUE freedom.
Wear something pretty today I am
I’m so fortunate to have a GF/GG like TA who not only understands, but celebrates, participates, and enjoys my feminine side. Like Stevie, I’m glad I’m male and enjoy doing all the prototypical male things but I also like to express my femme self too, and frequently!!
After a recent shopping trip, my GF said, “why don’t you get your sexy on?” and gave me the “look”. The good kind, with a sly smile, and I thought ‘ sure why not’. I didn’t do a catwalk like TA’s SO, but I did model some of the clothes and shoes I got on our excursion and she really liked it. It was radically different from trying them on in the store, so liberating and free! I felt euphoric, energized and relaxed all at once. Like Stevie, I relish the “naughtiness “ of it and it makes me feel like nothing else does, to the point where it’s all but indescribable. I’m fairly sure that others have felt the same.
I’ll admit there are other times when I just want to “put my gurl on” and chill without necessarily being sexy, but even that feels sooo good!
Anyway, sorry for the rambling, I just wanted to express my thoughts about our shared experiences and I am so glad for this forum where we can have unfettered conversations about expressing who we really are.