Feminine Empowerment!

Feminine Empowerment!

Hello again, divine readers!

I would like to take this time to reflect on the wonders of femininity and the simply liberating effect it has on our souls.

Just like most of you, I have fully embraced my feminine side after many years of experimentation and discovery. This process surely was rocky to say the least, and I had many moments of doubt and insecurity. The world as we know it can be a daunting place for men who embrace the feminine aesthetic, but ultimately the feeling of being true to yourself outweighs any of the challenges that may come along with it. In the recent year, I have continued to push the gender envelope in all the places I exist publicly, and my confidence has been bolstered to a level I never thought to be possible.

Many factors have played into my newly found poise, but one of the primary ones is the simple fact that my femininity has been empowered by the existence of communities such as this one. XDress has been a wonderful place for personal validation, both in the confidence the models exude by presenting en femme, as well as the customers that share similar experiences and mentalities. The customer base only continues to grow with each passing day, and this fact goes to show how many men out there are accepting themselves as truly authentic, feminine individuals. This is such an inspiring period of history and I am truly proud to be a part of it.

I recently started a new job, and just like I do anywhere else, I presented the way I feel the most comfortable. This includes wearing satin blouses, beautiful skirts and dresses, and glamorous heels and makeup. Initially I did experience a fair amount of hesitation, and dressed a bit more androgynous as I became acclimated to my new environment. However, I quickly came to realize that no one really cared about my fashion choices, and instead I received many compliments and intrigued individuals who wanted to know more about me. One of my coworkers in particular told me: "Seeing someone who is so unapologetically themselves is always a great person to know".

At this moment I had never felt so proud of myself and my confidence continued to soar to new levels. Another coworker also was explaining my feminine presentation to another, stating "he dresses for fashion, and he looks amazing". These are experiences I simply had to share with you all, as I only wish to inspire every reader of this blog to eradicate any of the toxic societal conditioning you have endured throughout your life. To fully embrace my femininity unabashedly is an experience that I would not give up for anything. After all, gender is a spectrum that we all are free to experiment with as we desire. There are no defined rules or expectations for men or women in how they should appear anymore.

Times are changing rapidly, and it's important for every single one of us to realize and embrace this change to become truly empowered. I mean, how exquisite does it feel to come home after a long days work, and put on something like the Couture Satin & Lace Chemise? Better yet, wearing the Satin Ribbon and Bow Platforms to a a night out? I guarantee such experiences will leave you feeling confident and full of divine femininity that you will never want to give it up. And you never should. Our lives are our own, and we all are free to live them as we desire.

One final example I may share; I recently went clothes shopping while wearing an absolutely gorgeous pair of black patent heels. I live in a rather conservative area and most people around me dress very casual, so I stuck out as much as a sore thumb. At this point, I actually welcome any stares I receive, whether they are full of judgement or admiration. Such actions only prove that I have invoked another person's curiosity to a level where they may start becoming more open minded. Even if they are not, it feels good to burst the black and white bubble people often live in and force them to start thinking differently.

So set yourself free, embrace your femininity and become more empowered than you ever thought possible. Please share whatever experiences you have had that bolstered your confidence like I have. The more we support each other, the happier we can become!


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Yes. Yes. Yes, I too find, and have found, the more I embrace my innate femininity and explore its expansiveness, I feel fulfilled, empowered and at times scared. I fondly remember the first time I wore my orange Valentina bra under a see through, white, linen blouse and the double takes I received from family and friends. It was both unsettling and invigorating at the same time. 🫶🏽💋


Rodri, after reading your comment, I just knew that I wanted to respond as well. Just like you, I too love the feeling of my suspender belts pulling on my nylons. Especially while riding my Harley and I have to put my feet down at the stop light! Have been wearing nylon panties like forever but when I feel my nylons pulling on my garter belts, it quickly reminds me of what I am wearing under my levis and leather boots! Ron


Thank you friends! I just hope I can encourage others to share their stories or thoughts. Rodri, I am so happy for you. The fact that she is getting more into this, at the same time you are, is amazing. You get to go on the journey together and that is going to build on your relationship’s foundation. Just go along with what she says and let her know when its something that is not for you. Good luck! May your nights be more enjoyable than ever.


Joe what a story! I m similar in that i don’t want to b a woman or look like one! But i like certain femme styles and love nail polish on my toes! Thanks for chiming in


Interesting story Joe. You’re far more experienced in this subject than me (as everyone else on here seems to be). I only just got my first ever order from xdress, having experienced wearing feminine underwear (my wife’s) on a single occasion before that (an experience I really liked). The xdress items fit great, much better than my wife’s lingerie fitted me, I guess because they are designed for the male shape rather than female. Wearing the newly purchased panties and bra (satin) along with the garter belt and stockings feels great. I love the look of myself dressed up like this and think that my wife does too because she couldn’t stop touching my body through the lingerie as well as my stocking clad legs. At the moment we are both enjoying this new found kink (if that’s what it is), and have talked about other things to try – I have ordered some heels already and my wife has suggested that maybe I should try a basque or corset! I think I’ll be doing some more shopping with xdress very soon…


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