Hello again, divine readers!
I would like to take this time to reflect on the wonders of femininity and the simply liberating effect it has on our souls.
Just like most of you, I have fully embraced my feminine side after many years of experimentation and discovery. This process surely was rocky to say the least, and I had many moments of doubt and insecurity. The world as we know it can be a daunting place for men who embrace the feminine aesthetic, but ultimately the feeling of being true to yourself outweighs any of the challenges that may come along with it. In the recent year, I have continued to push the gender envelope in all the places I exist publicly, and my confidence has been bolstered to a level I never thought to be possible.
Many factors have played into my newly found poise, but one of the primary ones is the simple fact that my femininity has been empowered by the existence of communities such as this one. XDress has been a wonderful place for personal validation, both in the confidence the models exude by presenting en femme, as well as the customers that share similar experiences and mentalities. The customer base only continues to grow with each passing day, and this fact goes to show how many men out there are accepting themselves as truly authentic, feminine individuals. This is such an inspiring period of history and I am truly proud to be a part of it.
I recently started a new job, and just like I do anywhere else, I presented the way I feel the most comfortable. This includes wearing satin blouses, beautiful skirts and dresses, and glamorous heels and makeup. Initially I did experience a fair amount of hesitation, and dressed a bit more androgynous as I became acclimated to my new environment. However, I quickly came to realize that no one really cared about my fashion choices, and instead I received many compliments and intrigued individuals who wanted to know more about me. One of my coworkers in particular told me: "Seeing someone who is so unapologetically themselves is always a great person to know".
At this moment I had never felt so proud of myself and my confidence continued to soar to new levels. Another coworker also was explaining my feminine presentation to another, stating "he dresses for fashion, and he looks amazing". These are experiences I simply had to share with you all, as I only wish to inspire every reader of this blog to eradicate any of the toxic societal conditioning you have endured throughout your life. To fully embrace my femininity unabashedly is an experience that I would not give up for anything. After all, gender is a spectrum that we all are free to experiment with as we desire. There are no defined rules or expectations for men or women in how they should appear anymore.
Times are changing rapidly, and it's important for every single one of us to realize and embrace this change to become truly empowered. I mean, how exquisite does it feel to come home after a long days work, and put on something like the Couture Satin & Lace Chemise? Better yet, wearing the Satin Ribbon and Bow Platforms to a a night out? I guarantee such experiences will leave you feeling confident and full of divine femininity that you will never want to give it up. And you never should. Our lives are our own, and we all are free to live them as we desire.
One final example I may share; I recently went clothes shopping while wearing an absolutely gorgeous pair of black patent heels. I live in a rather conservative area and most people around me dress very casual, so I stuck out as much as a sore thumb. At this point, I actually welcome any stares I receive, whether they are full of judgement or admiration. Such actions only prove that I have invoked another person's curiosity to a level where they may start becoming more open minded. Even if they are not, it feels good to burst the black and white bubble people often live in and force them to start thinking differently.
So set yourself free, embrace your femininity and become more empowered than you ever thought possible. Please share whatever experiences you have had that bolstered your confidence like I have. The more we support each other, the happier we can become!
Xoxo,
Nathan
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Rodri Lucky u I envy u Start with what you had on. She s already accepted that. Matching bra panties garter and stockings Panties are always a good start Welcome!
I feel like a novice here but have enjoyed reading all the posts. I’m fairly new to the subject of wearing female clothing and have only taken a relatively small step down the path so far. My only experience to date was when my girlfriend suggested that I try wearing lingerie. I love it when she wears sexy lingerie and am always asking her to dress up for me, even though I know she’s not so keen because she says it’s just not comfortable for her (something I’ve questioned and challenged many times!). One day a while back when I asked her to wear stockings she said that if I was so keen on them then why didn’t I wear them instead and so, to prove a point on the comfort disagreement, I agreed. She handed me her garter belt, stockings, panties and a bra and suggested that I wear them for the whole evening to see how it feels for her. It was certainly more difficult to put on the lingerie than I’d expected (particularly clipping stockings into the garter straps, which is definitely not straight forward) but, unexpectedly, I actually loved the experience. The feeling of the nylon stockings rubbing between my legs and the tug of the straps pulling on the garter belt felt strangely exciting. I spent the whole evening wearing this outfit under my clothes and even though our intimacy later that night, which actually felt amazing. I’ve told her how much I enjoyed the experience and so she has suggested that I buy some lingerie of my own (which is when I stumbled upon this Xdress website). I haven’t bought anything yet but intend to do so pretty soon. Any recommendations on what to get first would be appreciated, because everything looks great!
I’m not sure if this is just a bit of experimentation at the moment or whether it might be the start of something more.
Maybe I’ll let you all know how things develop.
Thanks, Rodri
So nice to see I am not alone.
WB
So happy for you
The earlier you tell them the better; but not on the first date… or second
Stevie
I really like the comments on this blog post. I remember coming out to my girlfriend about my love of lingerie and expressing that feminine side of me. Was I nervous, absolutely. Was it a big risk, absolutely. I figured I would rip the band-aid off and just go for it. Am I happy that I did, well, that we did. From that point, we shop together, and buy matching lingerie. We pick out each others bra and panty sets each morning. She asks and encourages me to wear sexy lingerie as she wears it as much as I do. It’s so fun to go to a brick and mortar store to buy lingerie for each other. Nothing is better than a weekend morning together, having coffee, then making breakfast then lounging in our favourite lingerie together. It’s so nice to know that there are other relationships that are open and honest enough to allow your partner to just be themselves. Everything just goes to the next level. I hope the same for all of you. Thanks X-Dress for this platform to share our stories.