Dropping into the fem has become the main reason I dress these days. Letting go of the masculine is altogether healing for me. At the moment i decide to dress, something happens deep within, a cascade of the feminine floods my whole being, with a softness, that melts my pains away.
Crafting and reflecting the divine feminine brings balance, fun and love to my life xxx
The feeling and experience of being feminine is something that is special to us XD guys. I did not get into my “feminine side” till I was in my 30’s. I was single at that time and had the fortune to to be dating a girl who was dominate and then wanted me to wear panties and a bra as a way of expressing my submissiveness to her. She continued with this “training” until we went our separate ways. After breaking up with her, I continued with my dressing because I now felt my true self as a feminine male. I did all I could to learn, read and dress about male femininity, until I was dressing and acting female a good portion of my time. I was able to join a cross dresser group where the support and confidence to be feminine became a real reality. I had purchased a large wardrobe of dresses, mini skirts, blouses, lingerie, short-shorts, swim wear and make up to complete my transition. i was also blessed with a slim body and long shapely legs. Dressing was easy and convincing. I even dated males who were fond of and admired “gurls” like myself. It was great! they would bring e flowers and gifts! So from my 30’s up until my late 50’s I indulged myself in femininity. I dressed, acted and conducted myself as a girl, except when I was at work, which was only an 8 to 10 hour time. So my art of femininity was long lasting, truly enjoyable and something I will never forget. I did it with confidence and realized this is who I am. Today, I am married to a wonderful woman who allows and admires my feminine side. She only allows me to dress in panties, bra and lingerie, and that is just fine. So the art of femininity is special and should be experienced, indulged and hopefully become a reality for most of us XD guys.
I’ve worn stockings and garters under my male business wear for decades. I’m strictly vloset. I wear nude or light beige after stockings with a wide six strap gbelt with the rear strap well to the rear. I love the gentle thigh massage from the stockings and tiny motion of the straps as I move about. I don’t believe I was ever detected. But one day, as I was giving a presentation, I dropped a paper on the floor. As I stood up after retrieving it, a front garter popped open with what seemed to me like a cannon shot. I hurriedly finished my talk and went to the mens’ room for repairs.
Hola buenas tardes un cordial saludo desde Aguascalientes México solo quiero compartir que ami siempre me gustado mucho usar lencería y siempre e usado me siento cómodo y me encanta usar pero solo es ese gusto o fetiche no soy Gay siempre me angustado las mujeres desde joven fue muy normal con mis novias y igualmente siempre ese gusto por usar lencería hasta el dia de hoy tengo 33 años y 7 años de casado y 2 hermosos hijos y mi esposa siempre lo supo desde fuimos novios de mi gusto por usar lencería y todo bien pero yo siento que ella le molesta,o desconfía de mi por el echo de use lencería tenga otros gustos o que me dejen de interesar las mujeres pero no es así llo siempre esido así y se lo e demostrado por que la Amo pero lo malo es que no medise nada nada eslo que me demuestra ni siquiera se si desde que nosconosimos le molestaba a ella ese gusto que tengo y me ase sentir mal su actitud porque son muchos Años compartiendo y conviviendo porque ella fue la persona que llo escoji como my esposa y la amo pero lo que ella me hace sentir es que nunca me a aceptado tal como soy ,pero también nuestro matrimonio asido muy normal ella y llo formamos los pilares para que allá sido duradero siempre cumpliendo con Responsabilidades y siempre ver por el bienestar de nuestros hijos y a funcionando nuestro hogar solo es eso que no entiendo por qué ella no lo ha podido comprender o de entenderme y aceptarme tal como soy y con disgusto que seria eso my gusto por el uso de lencería siempre he usado como uso diario de Ropa interior siempre femenina y no para hombres nunca etenido ni usado ese tiempo de Ropa interior porque no simplemente no me gusta ,ni quisiera usarla Hojala y ella me comprendiera,ni tiene que dudar de lo que soy o desconfiar por ese simple gusto mío que es solo eso un simple gusto que me ase sentir bien con lo que uso y visto que es solo usar Ropa interior femenina siempre esido así y no podrá hacerme cambiar o de que vista algo con lo que no me sienta bien y solo incómodo seria como el usar una talla de zapatos más chica sabiendo que llo calzo del 8-1/2 y ella me compre del 7 que eso es lo que ella quería que Use . Sería como un ejemplo bueno me despido y que tengan buenas tardes Solo quería compartir mi vida y sin Ofender y con todo Respeto Gracias…
Hello everyone! Apologies for my late response. I have loved reading all your comments and I think we all are on the right track towards a much better (and femme) world. These topics feel more and more natural to discuss every time, and that is a great feeling. You all have great taste, and don’t ever stop exploring this side of you. -Nathan
On man bags… i have several. I match them with my clothes. I really want a neutral looking female bag. Looking for one. Lots of guys laughed at me but now they want one too! Stevie. Wear something pretty today!
Hi Gurls, I love that men are able to let out their feminine side more than ever. I have let my fem side gradually over the years. Like so many it started with panties and other lingerie. I guess panties were center stage for a long time and I have worn them exclusively for years. Even to doctor appointments. Of course I tone them down to a basic white or black panty. You might get a quick look or glance and yes I was terribly nervous the first few times. That all passes. I don’t know when or how but other feminine things followed. I shaved under my arms and legs. That was a big deal for me when going out in public. Terribly self conscious. That to passed and quite quickly. Today men shave everywhere. The color pink was another goal and I love that color. Shoes, tops, shorts and even sneakers in my attire. By the time you are there people are likely thinking you have a fem side. But do they really know? Originally I bought man bags. My wife was okay with that as it was less I asked her to carry. She has bought me a number of purses or handbags over the years. If my eyebrows went up I pretended they didn’t and have several handbags that I even think are girlie. They are so terribly handy though. Nail care, eye brows (I love having my eyebrows fem), light makeup, selectively women’s tops, shorts and footwear. But only if unisex enough to pass. Those lines move in time if I am honest. I am small so women’s clothes are easy for me. I love men expressing their feminine side. It seems so much more acceptable these days. I hope it becomes even more acceptable. Why shouldn’t males be able to wear girls school uniforms? Why not wear skirts and dresses? XDress has certainly help make all this more open and acceptable. Thank you.
Ally, I love the idea of boys being allowed to wear girls school uniforms, what a wonderful world that would be!
I found a great online article about eyebrow care. Using some of the simple tips from it made a real difference to the femininity of my eyebrows. A little bit of trimming and a little bit of plucking in the right places have given them a subtly more feminine shape and more scope for using eye shadows and mascara to better effect. Really simple but very effective.
Hi Ally Great points Freedom is the ability to be yourself in any situation Negative energy needs to be extracted from our lives Wear what you want when u want Panties daily for me Nail polish on my toes all the time Bras occasionally Womens jeans and tops Wear something pretty today i am
Hi Nathan – thank you for writing this blog on such an important topic. Since more openly expressing my femininity in the way I dress and make up, I have also simultaneously adjusted my interactions with people who display more characteristically masculine behaviours. Those people are on the fringes or gone from my life completely now and I feel so much better for it mentally. Being able to outwardly express my femininity in the way I dress and behave and to be around people who accept that makes me feel so much better.
The change I feel makes me wonder if choicee of expression of femininity needs to be encouraged at a much earlier age rather than leaving people unhappy and to warily unfold who they are over a long period of their lives. I remember when I was a child and my mother had to dress me in a skirt one afternoon and how different it made me feel. The pressure to ‘behave like a boy’ seemed to fall away and I felt so much more relaxed and happier. School uniform requirements should be much less gender specific. Boys should be allowed to wear skirts if they want to and without fear of bullying.
Like Stevie (hi Stevie) there are things that I do that might be thought of as masculine – but girls do those things too. The much more important aspect of my femininity is the way I choose to dress and my more naturally feminine behaviours. Perhaps my appearance is an outward expression of my values and who I see as my clan. By being myself I have found I attract people who appreciate me as myself. Life becomes so much easier.
Love to you all
Thanks for all your thoughts. Much appreciated and gave me many useful tips!
Thank Nathan. Provocative post For me I have a feminine side that yearns to be heard. I struggle with my fluidity for at times i wish to portray what is considered “femme” I love heels and painting my toes I love short dresses and stockings Skinny jeans and stilettos I love pretty lingerie I m exploring make up. But I m so male too! Lol! Cars football engines Lawn mowers fixing things etc I guess my femme side expresses itself in my personality as well. I m often called humble , nice , gentle. I love this blig its a lifeline for me to express my thoughts and share others as well Wear something pretty today i am Stevie