Good day, dear readers, and thank you for your following of my blogs. You are the best! I got to thinking about the whole issue of fetish, and decided to look it up. It is defined as, “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.” Beyond that, there are fetishes that are ascribed magical powers.
Frankly, that is a beyond me. Getting back to the original definition (I’m not going into the voodoo definition) did you start crossdressing because of sexual arousal? Did you find wearing panties a bit thrilling? Do you still find it so, or has wearing panties become just the usual thing for you? How about bras? I find both panties and bras so thrilling to wear. Honestly, matching bras and panties from Xdress, along with their matching camisoles are just about the best in the world!
Anyway, getting back to the topic, do you find dressing in beautiful lingerie an arousing experience, or is it just a normal part of your day? Xdress has a number of things that may appeal to a fetish dresser, such as dresses, petticoats & tutus (I love the Full Tulle Petticoat by the way), and skirts (check out the ballet skirt – way too cute!) The dresses especially suggest some form of role playing, and are definitely suited to fetish fun. Of course, there are some folks that go beyond this level to a frontier way beyond – the adult baby fetish. These are the folks that enjoy dressing as a baby, complete with diaper, bonnet, and teething ring or baby rattle, and wet their diapers. What do you think about that?
Getting back to the title of this blog, “Where do you draw the line?”, are you into fetish, or is dressing in lovely lingerie just a normal part of your life? What type of fetish goes from a “Hell, Yass!” to a “Hell, No!” for you? I’d love to hear your comments.
Angie (Guest Blogger)
I’m new to XDress but really enjoying the blogs. This one got me thinking and asking myself if its a fetish or something more? I think if its something you do occasionally then its a fetish. I wear lingerie daily in the privacy of my home and its normal for me to do that. I still get a rush out of slipping into lingerie at the end of the day. I have been in public (sort of) while wearing a few things. I’ve gone to a steam-bath and walked about in a pretty lace panty with garter and thigh-highs. I have to say it was exhilarating knowing I had the attention of other males. Its a major turn-on.
I have a fantasy where my wife gives me a box for my birthday and I open it and inside is a baby girl dress in satin with little puff sleeves, and ruched top half with little flowers embroidered on it. It comes with big satin baby panties with rows of ruffles on front and back. The skirt of the dress is very short and flowy and covers only the top half of the panties. It includes little white booties and mittens, The mittens are joined by a white ribbon that attaches to a white satin neck choker, so my hands are held up towards my chest so I cannot touch myself. In my fantasy, sometimes the dress is girly pink, but sometimes light boy blue, and I am being punished as a boy and made to wear the dress.
My previous fantasy was about moving to a small island of the coast of Scotland that only had an all girls school, the boys school having closed for lack of pupils. The few remaining boys were allowed to join the girl’s school, but had to wear the school uniform of a plaid skirt and white blouse, white panties, white knee high socks and Mary Janes. The boys pleated skirts were much shorter than the girls to identify them. Of course they had to wear gym slips for games and leotards for ballet. Does anyone else have fantasies like this they can share, or am I just weird?
I am sitting here reading all of your comments. I feel underdressed. I am only wearing a white bra, bikini panties, black pantyhose, bodyshaper, and a black blouse. All the best girls. Kate. Xxxx
Just wearing a pair of panties, preferably in satin, starts a rush of adrenaline. I put the XDress Satin/Lace Panties on in the morning and feel a bit aroused all day. When I put them on in the morning, my SO knows that I want to play later that night. A subtle hint at the start of the day that says get ready for “Some Good Luvin’” as Lou Rawls used to say. The day is full of little reminders: Flirty texts, a few selfies, a few pics from the bathroom stall in my panties or her in hers. Getting home first is the key so you can set the mood. Light a few candles, get out of your clothes an into more lingerie. A few glasses of wine placed near the bed and the lights dimmed while I lay on the bed waiting for my SO to get home. She does the same thing if she beats me home. And we let the playtime begin……
I love cross dressing mostly in panties and gowns. My wife barely accepts this so I can get away with it sometimes. Lucky those who are really fully accepted.
Lots of questions that you asked. :-D
" … did you start crossdressing because of sexual arousal?" Yes.
“Did you find wearing panties a bit thrilling?” Yes!
“Do you still find it so, or has wearing panties become just the usual thing for you?” Yes, I do. It has become usual, but I do find it thrilling.
“How about bras?” I love wearing bras, too.
“Anyway, getting back to the topic, do you find dressing in beautiful lingerie an arousing experience, or is it just a normal part of your day?” I wish it were a normal part of my day, and even when it has been more normal, it’s still very exciting.
“… folks that enjoy dressing as a baby, complete with diaper, bonnet, and teething ring or baby rattle, and wet their diapers. What do you think about that?” If I’m completely honest, I let a girl online talk me into wearing a diaper many years ago, and sometimes I really do love it. I’m not a complete AB (more of a DL), but I have had some cute diaper covers, and still have one, and even a few pacifiers and bottles. :-D
“Where do you draw the line?” I’m not quite sure yet, but I think I’m close to it. I’ve surprised myself though and let cute girls talk me into things I wouldn’t have thought I would have done (like go to Victoria’s Secret to try things on .. and show it to the sales girl. Or even come out of my dressing room into common areas, in just my lingerie.) :-o
" … are you into fetish, or is dressing in lovely lingerie just a normal part of your life?" Both, sort of. That is, I wish it were everyday.
“What type of fetish goes from a ‘Hell, Yass!’ to a ‘Hell, No!’ for you?” I know I won’t go as far as a feces or golden showers, or lots of other things, but I do enjoy a few fetishes. ;-)
Your lucky to have met the partner uou did Penny. How lovely to be able to wake up every morning and put on pretty panties and a lovely dress. Presumably you can share time helping each other with your nails too. How lucky you are!
I have cross dressed intermittently since I was a teenager. My elder brother and his wife lived with us for a while after they got married and I guess the sight of seeing her lingerie in the laundry was a powerful influence. This was back in the late 50s/early 60s and I would secretly handle and sometimes try on her lingerie whenever the opportunity arose. Suffice to say I became hooked on the sensuous look and feel of lingerie. Over the years I have experienced different forms of cross dressing with different partners and without fail lingerie has significantly enhanced the sexual experience. Whilst I prefer panties, girdles and stockings only, I am a willing partner in any form of cross dressing providing it is consensual and enjoyable for all concerned. There is something inexplicably arousing when both partners are wearing “womens’” lingerie.
It started out as an arousing and thrilling experience for me.
However it quickly transitioned into something normal. I discovered my feminine side, and since then, clothes that are usually considered for “women” is what feels most normal for me to wear. Most comfortable for me to wear.
It’s who I am on the inside
I’m not sure about fetish but for me it is both feminine and gay. I wear lingerie when I am most anticipating an encounter with a gay guy and to feel more feminine.
since I met my partner She requires me to wear panties and a bra all of my waking hours. At home I wear women’s clothes and heels. I have women’s wedge heeled tennis shoes that I wear out. Our relationship is the same as two women with her the dominate and yes it is sexually stimulating for both of us. i defiantly have a shoe fetish especially wedge heeled sandals and pumps. Thank you for the Blog.
It is as common place for me to go to my drawer and choose a pair of panties, a camisole or bra, and nylons, as it is was years ago for me to go to my drawer and pick out a pair of boxers, undershirt, and socks. Though I do get a thrill wearing something sexy for my spouse.
But all in all, wearing lingerie, for me, is the norm!
I only wear panties…everyday. Nitegowns all the time for sleeping, basically long and slinky. Wife is very supportive for this.
I dress in lingerie only, it’s a arousal and fun for me. I started young, moms and sisters things, cause I was curious about the different and beautiful things. I am now 59 and the amount of different styles is very appealing. Thank you xdress for making and bringing out beautiful things for us to wear and feel sexy.
I have worn women underwear for many years. When I first realised that I really liked the idea I was a testosterone fuelled young teenager. So just standing naked would probably have aroused me. I then adopted really nice under wear and clothes as part of my free time mode but underwear all the time, if I can get away with a bra (Made to measure) i do and I love wearing lovely underwear and female clothes. I always imagined that if I wore nice clothes all the time the novelty and pleasure would wear off. Well I have the answer! It doesn’t. I am in my late fifties and still really love wearing decent sexy undies. I suppose I get aroused as much as any man does, it’s not just the undies, but females have a special place in my arousal. By the way, my wife thinks bit strange but there again we have been married a very long time and are both very happy! I also like to fully dress up. Not all the time but now and then. I can’t think of anything in the world better!