Hello dear readers! It's long overdue that we discuss all the lovely benefits of dating an Xdresser, and what we bring to the table that other men do not. So let's get right into it.
First of all, it goes without saying that the men who xdress love to shop! This automatically makes us more enjoyable company than the men that just sit on a bench when they go to the mall / clothing stores with their significant other. For me, shopping is not only incredibly fun, it's also a form of stress relief. To unapologetically shop in the women's clothing section, alongside your wife or girlfriend is an experience that could only be described as euphoric. I have done this a number of times with my girlfriend and it is quite simply a very intimate experience to share together, especially when shopping for lingerie. Picking things out for each other, recommending items and just enjoying what is considered to be a feminine activity is something that can strengthen any relationship.
Next, xdressers are generally more empathetic compared to other men. We understand the amount of effort it takes to look pretty, what it takes to pull off an outfit and the difficulty in wearing heels on a night out. We also tend to be more in tune with our feminine side, which makes us able to convey our emotions in a much more sensitive way. For example, I recall being quite dismissive and having a "it's not a big deal" attitude when discussing problems before I became an Xdresser. However, my attitude could not be more opposite now when I have discussions. Coming from a place of love, understanding and compassion is my general guideline now. In short, I feel xdressing has made me a much better person for this reason alone.
Also, xdressers are just more fun to be around! The majority of people live in an all or nothing world, where they follow social constructs and guidelines as if their lives depend on it. The inherent courage it takes to even be a xdresser means we generally look at situations in life with a unique perspective. We are comfortable with standing out and breaking the norms, which takes a serious amount of gumption. One could argue we are more "manly" than your average jeans and t-shirt wearing man, as we do not fear criticism like those who try so hard to fit in. Bold is the perfect term for xdressers, because there is nothing more bold than a man in heels and lipstick that doesn't care if everyone is staring at them.
Lastly, an xdresser is an amazing lover! They will more often than not, devote more than the average man to a relationship, as we value intimacy and commitment above all else. At least, that's how it is for me. We also love spending time with our significant other doing all sorts of activities other men would scoff at. Such activities include mani/pedis, facials, massages, or any other essential self care activity! I am sure all of us here can attest to how incredible it is sharing these experiences with our SO and not feeling guilty for it. After all, what woman wouldn't want a man they can share almost every part of their lives with?
All in all, I truly think xdressing is wonderful thing. Embracing femininity is a balancing act that will vastly improve your relationships, as people begin to be drawn to your balanced and harmonious energy. So, what do you think? Has xdressing made you more fun? Have your relationships improved? Let me know in the comments!
-Nathan
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The fabrics have a calming effect on me! I often come home take off my male clothes and slip into something more comfortable so to speak. Although i wear panties every day when i get home i may want to relax in a bodysuit or bra panty set with stockings heels and silk robe Definitely has an effect My under dressing also gives me confidence during the day and even calms me down during a heated moment when I remember what I wearing underneath and the color of my nail polish on my toes 😉 Get ur lingerie on Stevie So happy for those who can share with SO
I agree very much with your blog. Being able to wear this stunning underwear had quiet the effect on me. The soft fabric cannot be compared with my average underwear. I just love the way it fits and the way it let’s me feel special. My wife very much appreciates me wearing the Xdress lingerie. For me it is super fun to browse through the website and it very liberating to be able to dress how I feel and to be able to share it with her. I am very happy I discovered Xdress and love all the lingerie I now have in my drawer!
Nathan, well done. My girlfriend and I go shopping together and it is incredibly fun. The funny thing is that individually we don’t like shopping, but together makes it a great experience. We enjoy picking things out for each other. The other thing that I want to mention in your comment, "For example, I recall being quite dismissive and having a “it’s not a big deal” attitude when discussing problems before I became an Xdresser. However, my attitude could not be more opposite now when I have discussions. Coming from a place of love, understanding and compassion is my general guideline now. In short, I feel xdressing has made me a much better person for this reason alone." This goes to the point of my last blog regarding masculine and feminine energy. Once you shifted your energy, you also shifted your behaviour. Xdress has been such a great place to fulfill that feminine energy. I know that my girlfriend enjoys when that energy comes through, and we connect on a different level, and just enjoy everything together. First pedicure ever!
Very nice blog and I agree that XDressers have more fun! Shopping is a great way to spend time together but getting home and wearing it with each other is way more fun! We do massages together, waxing together, mani/pedi’s together and it is very liberating and so much fun.
Anthony great post, I think u have what we all want. A spouse you can share your passion for life and lingerie with. I too agree with a lot in the post. Lingerie men have a sensitive side for sure. As for sharing this love with your spouse that is the best. It creates such intimacy and closeness! You get to share vs hide the experience. I think on this often! One of the things I enjoy about wearing lingerie is that it adorns the make frame with pretty sexy fabrics which creates an incredible picture and i like beautiful bodies. The masculine adorned in feminine cloth is erotic and naughty to me . I enjoy it So happy for u Get ur lingerie on