Hello dear readers! It's long overdue that we discuss all the lovely benefits of dating an Xdresser, and what we bring to the table that other men do not. So let's get right into it.
First of all, it goes without saying that the men who xdress love to shop! This automatically makes us more enjoyable company than the men that just sit on a bench when they go to the mall / clothing stores with their significant other. For me, shopping is not only incredibly fun, it's also a form of stress relief. To unapologetically shop in the women's clothing section, alongside your wife or girlfriend is an experience that could only be described as euphoric. I have done this a number of times with my girlfriend and it is quite simply a very intimate experience to share together, especially when shopping for lingerie. Picking things out for each other, recommending items and just enjoying what is considered to be a feminine activity is something that can strengthen any relationship.
Next, xdressers are generally more empathetic compared to other men. We understand the amount of effort it takes to look pretty, what it takes to pull off an outfit and the difficulty in wearing heels on a night out. We also tend to be more in tune with our feminine side, which makes us able to convey our emotions in a much more sensitive way. For example, I recall being quite dismissive and having a "it's not a big deal" attitude when discussing problems before I became an Xdresser. However, my attitude could not be more opposite now when I have discussions. Coming from a place of love, understanding and compassion is my general guideline now. In short, I feel xdressing has made me a much better person for this reason alone.
Also, xdressers are just more fun to be around! The majority of people live in an all or nothing world, where they follow social constructs and guidelines as if their lives depend on it. The inherent courage it takes to even be a xdresser means we generally look at situations in life with a unique perspective. We are comfortable with standing out and breaking the norms, which takes a serious amount of gumption. One could argue we are more "manly" than your average jeans and t-shirt wearing man, as we do not fear criticism like those who try so hard to fit in. Bold is the perfect term for xdressers, because there is nothing more bold than a man in heels and lipstick that doesn't care if everyone is staring at them.
Lastly, an xdresser is an amazing lover! They will more often than not, devote more than the average man to a relationship, as we value intimacy and commitment above all else. At least, that's how it is for me. We also love spending time with our significant other doing all sorts of activities other men would scoff at. Such activities include mani/pedis, facials, massages, or any other essential self care activity! I am sure all of us here can attest to how incredible it is sharing these experiences with our SO and not feeling guilty for it. After all, what woman wouldn't want a man they can share almost every part of their lives with?
All in all, I truly think xdressing is wonderful thing. Embracing femininity is a balancing act that will vastly improve your relationships, as people begin to be drawn to your balanced and harmonious energy. So, what do you think? Has xdressing made you more fun? Have your relationships improved? Let me know in the comments!
-Nathan
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I absolutely agree with your post. I am not a full xdresser but satin and lingerie have long been my pleasure. Having my wife select lingerie for me while I am selecting for her is an amazing experience!! My wife has seen me in panties for years and she love laying in bed and feeling the satin on my select areas. She will select items out for me in the evenings and now even packs her favorites when we travel. In Vegas pre COVID we went to an adult store and purchased matching white panties and bra, needless to say it was a mind blowing evening. She now asks me to go with her for a manicure and pedi before get aways or as part of a date. I was a bit nervous the first time but now I now that it allows me to spend time with her and just relax for an hour. My wife loves to shop, she likes looking at almost everything. She doesn’t have to purchase something but just views it as fun. I enjoy looking through her size and selecting items I want to see on her or just new styles for her to try. It is actually a good time and it makes her feel better about herself as well. My wife is amazing, sexy, funny and the love of my life. We have been married for 24 years and I never have had any thought of flirting with someone else or wanting something more. I am not at all attracted to other men and don’t feel bad dressing in sexy feminine lingerie. We are so close to each other and experience everything together including any style of sex you can imagine. All of this has kept us looking and feeling young. We married young and have continued to grow together. Xdress satin panties and lingerie have been a big part of our life. I wish you would have matching white satin lingerie set for husband and wife. I also have been in search of some pastel or light yellow bra and panty set.