In my last blog, I discussed the feeling of an energy shift when getting dressed. Wearing certain items of clothing or wearing specific colors can shift you energy from a more masculine energy to more of a feminine one. At this level, I believe that it is a feeling that we create for ourselves. We are making a choice on how we want to feel. In this blog, we are taking this a step further, the part of you that isn’t a conscious choice, but a part of who you are.
There is quite a bit of information out there regarding masculine and feminine energy, just go to Google and check it out. As an example, Tony Robbins talks about it, and there is even a quick quiz you can take to evaluate which energy you primarily have: https://core.tonyrobbins.com/gender-quotient-4/
Masculine and feminine energy has nothing to do with and is beyond gender. It is your Yin and Yang. These energies define and are a part of your values and inner nature. We all have both masculine and feminine energies in our body, but one will lead or present itself more than another. You can also show those energies when in different scenarios, for example, you want to dominate a conversation or situation, you will be showing your masculine energy, should you want to bring peace and harmony to the situation, you will bring your feminine energy to the forefront.
Generally speaking, one energy will dominate the other in your day to day world. Feminine energy feels softer, gentler, kinder, compassionate, and loving, whereas masculine energy feels more focused, determined, logical, leadership and action. The feminine energy is more creative, flowing, collaborative, with idea creation and attracting the things you want in its own time. It is about sharing, and seeing the big picture, and working with others to create a feeling of community. The masculine energy is about getting things done within a time frame, setting up the plan and structure to get it done to see an end result. Relying on oneself to problem solve and make sure that things get done.
The thing is, you cannot have one without the other, otherwise you will feel unbalanced. If your masculine energy is too dominant you may feel undervalued or not appreciated. If your feminine energy is too dominant you will feel unfocussed, scattered and unstable. The trick here is to understand and allow the energy that you naturally have to come through, and not try and force or correct it.
So, how does this play out in accordance with this site and the people that connect within it? You can be the company executive who has to make hard decisions during the workday, and make sure that projects get completed on time, then can’t wait to slip into something soft, sexy, and feminine at night or on the weekends to find that balance and feed that energy, it has nothing to do with gender. Maybe you wear the suit and tie, but wear panties, bra, and stockings underneath to find that balance. The other option is to wear a skirt and heels, but make sure that you make your point, win the argument, and GSD (get shit done).
The interesting thing is, one’s not better than the other, there is no right or wrong, they are part of who we are, and we need to learn to embrace them. Allow them to shine and just be who you are. These energies are playing themselves out no matter what you are wearing, the question is, are you supporting it?
I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences when playing with these energies. I know that as a hetero-sexual male that my dominant energy is feminine, and that is why XDress is so great for someone like myself to be able to fulfill that part of my being. What is your dominant energy, and how do you balance yours?
WB
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My dominant energy is male but I definitely have some feminine energy. So to balance it out I wear panties bras camis toenail polish shave my body underneath my male clothes. I also wear mascara shape my brows wear concealer and foundation Now i also mow my lawn fix my car use my tools 🛠 But I m me ! I love my life. Thanks xdress for male lingerie Get ur lingerie on Stevie
Hi everyone, I would like to inquire if there is any confusion as to this whole masculine/ feminine energy post, as Ally had alluded to? The point that I was trying to make it that we all have both energies within us, no matter who you are. I was just wondering how everyone either balances those energies, or how they have embraced them, or not? Maybe in the office, you have to use that masculine energy to force an issue, or demand that things get done a certain way, and then at home you find that balance by wearing what Stevie suggests? Do you create a balanced approach at work and keep more of a feminine energy throughout your day? What is your dominant energy, and how do you balance both sides? Always interested to hear your thoughts. WB
Hello everyone, I hope you are well! This discussion about our dominant energies is very interesting. It was easy for me to realize from an early age that my dominant energy was female. It’s how I feel and in my daily life I always used panties and at home I like to feel very feminine.
Ally you got it gurl! Energy outlook feeling about yourself changed with the heels ! I can come home change my panties to more sexy add a bra a dress heels some heavier make up and i m feeling relaxed sexy and good about myself Get ur lingerie on Stevie
Stevie I agree. I’m XY genetically and heterosexual but gender fluid. I m usually 80:20 masculine energy but I can easily even it out to 50:50 by light makeup i.e. primer, concealer, bronzer (in winter only) mascara and brow filler. I also have several shades of nude lipstick that I wear daily – nothing too drastic- I work in an office full of women and one other guy and no one has ever said anything about it. As Angie once said less is better. My girlfriend and I regularly get pedicures so my toes are always done. All those things bring out the femme in me which I really like. And like you I easily flip to 80:20 femme when I get home by sliding into something satiny and sexy. Get your femme on gurls!! Kyrstin