When I get home from work, nothing makes me happier than taking off my “work” clothes and picking out a nice skirt and top for the evening. Now, due to my career and location, I am unable to dress in feminine clothing, at least what people would see, due to the judgement of others. It would have quite a negative result, at least that it what I think. Now, I go get to underdress every day. My girlfriend and I pick out each other’s bra and panty sets every morning, and are often matching. Last night I came home from work, and on the bed was a bra, panty, garter, stocking set, with a skirt and matching top. I must say that I got a whistle when I came out into the living room (felt pretty good). Then put on jazz, grabbed some wine, and make dinner. It just feels so, so, so good. Then at night, I put on a couture satin and lace chemise to sleep in.
Where am I going with this? When you get to dress how “YOU” want, how does it feel? I mean, really feel? I have written blogs on Masculine and Feminine Energy as well as one about Feeling Pretty. One thing that I discovered, and therefore like sharing with you, is that when I get to get dressed up “en femme”, I just feel more like myself. Now, I will tell you, that I do not look feminine in any way, shape, or form, but that is what is on the outside. I will tell you that when I get to dress up when I get home, although I look masculine on the outside, I feel very feminine on the inside. This is why I do it.
So, what is it about slipping into a pretty satin bra and panty set, or adding the garter, and attaching the stockings? What is that feeling about putting your skirt on and picking out a matching top, or putting on your favorite dress, and feeling the swish on your legs as you walk around the house, or out on the town? How about putting on some lipstick, or make-up? Recently, my girlfriend and I went for pedicures together (I felt for the girl doing the pedicure on my Fred Flintstone feet). It was exhilarating. Getting to pick out the toenail polish, and seeing the final result was so fun. So much so, my girlfriend paints my toenails on a regular basis, with the polish that she bought me.
What about going on the What's New Collection and picking out what you want. Or anticipating the next line coming out such as the New Blossom line, which I think is amazing. I am awaiting my delivery and can’t wait to feel and see it on. What about stretching yourself a little bit and ordering a bra or garter for your collection, which you thought you never would? (I was there once). Now, it’s a no-brainer for me, as there is nothing like a pretty matching set. Truth be told, I think that I might have a larger lingerie collection than my girlfriend. Hey, nothing wrong with options, right?
I know that when I get to dress how I want, to feel the satin on my skin, to feel the swoosh of my skirt against freshly shaved legs, to add the enhancements in my bra (thanks XDress for the pockets in the bras), to lounge in pretty satin lingerie, and to wear panties that actually fit, I get to allow my feminine side to come out and play. The more that I get to do it, the more I feel like myself on the inside. The more that I feel like myself, the more confidence I get, and therefore I get to love myself even more. I just got so tired of fighting a part of me that I knew wanted to come out and play. I am very fortunate to have a SO who understands me, supports me, and loves me for me, panties and all.
I would love to keep this conversation going on this blog where you can share how you really feel when you get dressed up. Thank you XDress for having this forum so that we can share our stories, not feel weird, and providing lingerie for men that is not only pretty, but well made and allows us to express our powerful feminine energy.
How does it make you feel?