By Pink Pony Sub (He/Him)
When did you first start wearing panties or lingerie and what motivated you to try it?
I guess growing up watching movies and TV shows, I would always think the women looked so sexy in their lingerie, especially when they would hop out of bed and throw a men's shirt over the top. As I got older, I realized lingerie didn't have to be just for women. I went online and ordered my first lace thong, and it progressed from there.
What are your favorite lingerie styles and fabrics and why do they feel right for you?
I tend to gravitate towards lace and satin, or both together! That combination really taps into the ultimate fantasy for me. Not to mention it feels just as good as it looks. Colour-wise, I'm not super into patterns. I tend to prefer solid colours or two colours together, like red and black lace.
Do you wear lingerie every day or save it for certain moments and how do you decide?
I definitely cycle through different headspaces. When I'm in a more feminine headspace, I'll lean more into wearing lingerie to work, to the gym, and in the bedroom. P.S. Nothing gives me more of a rush than getting changed in the locker room while wearing lingerie. Other times I may be feeling more masculine and reach for my briefs or thongs instead.
How open are you about wearing lingerie and who in your life knows about it?
My husband knows and is really supportive. I also have X and Bluesky accounts where I mainly post chastity content, but I'll occasionally post photos in lingerie too, so my followers definitely know!
How has wearing lingerie helped you connect with your feminine or softer side?
As lingerie is traditionally viewed as more feminine, I think wearing it can be a physical embodiment of that headspace and allows you to channel that energy. In some ways, it gives you permission to tap into that side of yourself and just be playful.
What made you move away from traditional mens underwear and try something different?
I guess I've always been on this journey towards lingerie and didn't even know it. Traditional men's underwear, for me, is very practical and not super inspiring, although men's underwear brands have come a long way. As I progressed into thongs and G-strings,
I realized I was getting as close to lingerie as possible within the men's underwear space. Eventually it clicked that what I really wanted was the feeling and experience of wearing lingerie. So I started experimenting more, and here we are!
What advice would you give to a guy who is curious about starting to wear panties or lingerie?
My advice would be to do it! Groundbreaking, right?
No, truly. Fear is an emotion born out of a need to protect ourselves, but we also need to recognize when fear is no longer serving us and is stopping us from doing something we genuinely want to explore. Give yourself permission to try it. Dip your toe in, have no expectations, and just see how it feels for you.
How has wearing lingerie impacted your confidence or self expression?
In a strange way, it has helped me feel complete. When you embrace all parts of yourself, you feel activated. Kind of like the Megazord in Power Rangers, where all the parts come together to create something stronger. For me, that's translated into becoming a happier, more confident version of myself.
What does XDress mean to you and how has it supported your lingerie journey?
XDress is awesome. It's great to have a dedicated men's lingerie brand instead of relying on cheap, ill-fitting items from Amazon. It's also been great connecting with other guys through the XDress community. In some ways, it feels like more than just a store.
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6 comments
One thing I appreciate about these stories is how different everyone’s journey is. Mine was not about fashion at first. It was about finally feeling comfortable in my own skin.
These days I wear panties every day because they simply feel like me. Some days I feel more masculine, some days I feel more feminine, and I have learned that both sides can exist together. Reading about others who understand that feeling always makes my day.
I am 81 years old. I orderd my first X Dress bra and panty a few month ago. I love the fabric and it makes me feel very femine and sexy. Wear them every day.
My experience started after years of complaining about how uncomfortable my underwear was. My wife finally suggested I try something different and I decided to give panties a chance. I did not expect much but I was surprised by how quickly I preferred them. Now it has even become a bit of a shared interest between us. We look at styles together and she often helps me pick new ones. It turned something very simple into something that is actually enjoyable rather than just practical.
What I liked about this article is how honest it is about something that a lot of men think about but do not always talk about. For me it was never about trying to make a statement or change who I am. It was simply about comfort and preference. I remember the first time I tried panties I was surprised at how natural they felt. There was no adjustment period where I had to convince myself it was okay. It just made sense immediately. Since then I have not felt any need to go back to traditional underwear because they do not compare in comfort for me.
There is a shift happening where younger guys are not so focused on fitting into one rigid idea of masculinity. For me that includes wearing panties, trying different fabrics, and even experimenting with grooming habits like skincare and nail care. It does not make me feel less like myself, it actually makes me feel more confident. I think a lot of men are starting to realize that. A lot of younger guys are into lace. I do wish Xdress or bodyaware would make some unique lace! It’s always floral but there so so much they could do. Hexagons would be cool. Men’s torsos would be cool.