Nothing makes me happier when I have the chance to underdress in my favorite or newest set. But it comes less often now, and it takes a toll on my soul. Unsure as to how to even broach the subject as time has gone on. How do I explain that I wear vintage(and exquisite) La Perla from nearly 30 years ago along with my massive collection of XDress, VS and others.- Underdressed for the occasion
I don't think it's possible and even important to explain this side of us. It's who we are. No one ever explains why they are right-handed or why they have red hair or blue eyes or why they are tall. Our physical features and what we wear are just who we are. We were, well, born this way.
And who are you wanting to explain this to? I know a lot of people and I interact with a lot of people each day, but no one needs to know and no one (other than my wife) does know about what I am wearing under my shirt and pants. People do not need to know, or want to know, about the underwear someone is wearing. Whether you are wearing cute pink panties or ugly boxer shorts, this is your business. This is personal and private and intimate. Yes, someone else might find it a little odd that if I told them I am wearing a sexy matching cami and thong under my suit, but they also would find it odd if I shared with them any information about the underwear, no matter what kind of underwear, I put on that day.
Lingerie is often referred to as intimate clothing. Which is perfect. Intimacy is private, personal, and not something that needs to be, or should be, shared with everyone. What you do in your bedroom (or anywhere) is between you and your partner. It is, and should remain intimate. Your lingerie or anything you wear that is not meant to be seen by the majority of people, should also remain intimate.
Clearly wearing lingerie makes you happy. I can relate! If it makes you happy, lean into it. It sounds like you have accepted this side of you, you've acknowledged that this part of you makes you happy... I think you should embrace it. I love wearing lingerie, I love that it makes me happy. I love getting a new order of panties from Xdress. I can't explain why it makes me happy but I don't care, lol. I don't need to dissect why anything, whether it's lingerie or a favorite book , makes me happy.
Love,
Hannah
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9 comments
I agree, but I also love to dissect and explain the workings of the human brain. My love for women’s underwear is however a tough one.
Very good blog, Hannah! You are right that it is nobody’s business and what you wear for intimates is totally up to you to share, or not. I feel amazing when I wear my XDress panties and they make me feel more confident for some reason. Unsure why, but they do. Anyway, it is a personal decision on what you wear and who you tell it to. Thanks for the blog!
i love that story. Nothing makes me fell sexier than wearing a pair of my lace panties in public.
Are there sizing charts for men that want to wear lingerie? Thanks.
I totally agree and had never considered the other components such as eye or hair color that are also naturally selected. The challenge I have with underdressing is showing the lines. Specifically the adjustment part of a cami, I just don’t know how to hide it well enough to be certain it does not catch anyone else’s eye. I’ve tried layers, and unless I put on a few hick winter coat I always seem to show. Any tips or tricks for that one and I am all ears. 🥰