Hey XDress family, long time since I blogged and I hope you have been enjoying the summer as much as I have. I do love the summer fashions and it’s such fun looking thru the collections of skimpy denim shorts, mini-skirts and crop and cami tops in the mall. But as we move into Autumn, and temperatures begin to drop, I see stores are now changing over to the heavier winter clothes, out with the old and in with the new! As it happens every year, I guess we will all get used to wearing heavier clothes and showing less skin: sweaters, sleeved shirts, long pants and just more clothes over ourselves.
It got me thinking about this community. XDress offers so many cute and stylish products that I know we all love and enjoy mostly privately. Not many of us are likely to talk openly about under garments with our co-workers and friends but do they know or suspect? Do they not know? If they do, do they support you? Have they asked to try? Or inquire where you get them?
I was changing at the gym the other day and pulling on my Body Aware deep pink gym shorts over my pink satin and lace cheekster panty and was asked where I got the panties. I proudly said XDress and the guy said he liked them and never knew they existed for men. So in that case, I feel like I helped someone find themselves or at least find something that they can enjoy with their SO.
There was a time when I was kinda shy about wearing XDress and was rather protective about it. Kinda hiding it from those around me. I still do not actively promote it but if someone notices, they sometimes inquire where I get them. Surely not everybody agrees or approves, but I couldn’t care less. As I get older, I find it is more important to be yourself and be comfortable with all you do for you.
Anyway, this led me to wonder that with the greater societal tolerance of anything related to crossdressing and gender nonconformity, if people are now more open about their choice in undies. I have shifted from not telling to not caring and am rather open about it if and when I am asked or if my thong is exposed when I bend over to pick something up. If asked, I just state how comfortable and flirty they are and, better yet, how much my SO loves them.
So, from this community, I’d like to hear if you are open or closeted in your XDress selection. Also share your feelings on the changing seasons and how that effects what you like to wear. Do you miss the skimpy clothing of summer?
Scott
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Fred so sorry to hear that! Maybe go back to what she tolerated and then after a while ask her what else can she tolerate Hope it gets better
I have loved wearing women’s panties since my sister dressed me in hers when I was 4 or 5. As I got older I would take a pair from her drawer and hide them in my room. Eventually I would try on her bra. As I got to early adulthood, I would shop for myself and wear panties to work every day. I still wear panties more than boxers or briefs. My wife enjoys my wearing panties but doesn’t like me wearing a bra in public. She is still nervous about others being able to see it. I like your new models but you need a senior model! 😊
I am struggling to come out l, even with my wife. There for a while I thought she was getting in to it with me, then I bought a couple camis and some nighties, and I lost her, and my self confidence in dressing in front of her. So I underdress every day, and love myself for it.
Hello everybody! I loved the blog theme. Summer is over and Autumn/Winter is approaching. We miss big days, the beach and friends. Without forgetting the fresh, transparent clothes and bikinis. I like winter when we can be at home and enjoy our lingerie. I have always worn lingerie since I was 12/13 years old in a discreet way. The only people who know about this fetish of mine were my boyfriends and a secretary who once saw my underwear when picking up a piece of paper from the floor. Super discreet, she laughed and nothing more. The truth is that over the years, I’ve made everything more visible to others, today I can’t wear anything else on the beach other than a bikini. I’ve never had a more boring situation. People are becoming more tolerant of each other. We have to be ourselves because life is short! Francisca
Hello everybody I am closeted. Job position etc do not warrant open display of my xdress collection! But who talks about their underwear? I never did before xdress and don’t now. Now I have made a lingerie drawer or 2 or 4 at home and don’t exactly hide from my wife. She has no idea how much lingerie i have As for fall. I like it better for fashion I can wear bra panties garter stockings under my suit and no one knows; bodysuits are in play, nail polish on my toes , women’s sweaters! Love fall and winter Get ur lingerie on I did Stevie